You can totally say it, but what's keeping you here?
Oh I thought you were being rhetorical. My wife and her proximity to her family, I like my job, and I just bought a house that I like too. A lot of me wants to pick up and head back home to where I grew up, but it seems staying here and trying to help fix things isn't so bad. I mean, even though so much is fucked up about IL, life relative to a lot of the world isn't so bad. But it does seem to rock some obnoxious down sides.