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The fiancé and I are just doing stockings this year since I’m going away for work the week before Christmas and we’re simultaneously planning a wedding. Other than that we’re in a gift exchange with her side of the family and she’s taking care of that one. I usually buy for my parents and brother and just guess something they could use which is pretty easy. Not participating in my moms side of the family’s grab bag exchange because it seems pointless to give and get some random crap that’s just going to clutter up your house.
Winning, thats a sore spot with my wife. I think she always feels like I don't like the gift even if I do. I think she expects me to jump through the window and scream when I open it. .... And thats pretty much never gonna happen.
I'm in the exact same situation. I proposed just a month ago and that completely changed Christmas due to wedding planning and saving up cash for it. This year we set the expectation to all the family and friends that this year is just stocking suffers and small gifts.
I almost feel like the minimal stress we’ve had so far locking in our venue, photographers and bar service has been much less than the usual “what do I get her for Christmas” stress .
shit, get me a $50 bottle of scotch instead of $50.
$50 in scotch feels like a much bigger gift than two twenties and a ten... A
Gift cards and cash are an underappreciated savior for these decisions
sweet, and the cash i just got filled up my truck instead of gifting me anything
id rather give & receive halfway thoughtful gifts
sweet, and the cash i just got filled up my truck instead of gifting me anything
id rather give & receive halfway thoughtful gifts
It is quite sad how much of a monetary transaction Christmas has become.
So you're complaining that the other person gave you free gas?
To be honest the holiday is so warped, everyone is lucky to be getting anything if at all anymore.
I was making a point, I am fortunate and grateful to receive anything. It's awesome.
What I was getting at is when you give someone $50, chances are they are not getting themselves anything "extra" instead of a thoughtful gift, they paid a chunk of their phone bill, or got groceries. It's not like you're behooving them something thoughtful.
do something. think of something. photo books, canvas's, etc. photobooks are AWESOME for thoughtful gifts and so ridiculously easy to make and gift.
Wifey categorically REFUSES to purchase gift cards as they demonstrate laziness and lack of caring in her mind.