AZ teacher arrested for banging 13 year old

[Flyn]

Any kid who can't outwit his parents as far as technology goes deserves to have his messages read.

 

[Lord Tin Foilhat]

I know a kid who has parents that check his phone. So he just sends all his private messages on snapchat. Parents can't see the history of anything he doesn't want them to see.

There are ways around it if you have physical access to the device.

 

[Fish]

Sends a pretty clear message to your kids that you don't trust them. And forces them to get creative in finding ways to lie about stuff. I'm not a parent, but I was a child and my parents doing that to me would not have gone over well.

My mom trusted me, but always checked on me. Its called being a responsible parent. Otherwise we have more kids running around eating tide pods and bragging about it.

So I do the same. Granted I didnt have a smart phone, or anything like that growing up. I had to use a shared Gateway 2000/486 computer and a beeper. Technology changes, so your tactics have to change.

 

[slowchevy]

ugh

 

[Sprayin]

My mom trusted me, but always checked on me. Its called being a responsible parent. Otherwise we have more kids running around eating tide pods and bragging about it.

So I do the same. Granted I didnt have a smart phone, or anything like that growing up. I had to use a shared Gateway 2000/486 computer and a beeper. Technology changes, so your tactics have to change.

There is a difference between checking in on someone and flat out spying into their phone. There is a thing called respect and boundaries, even for kids.

I see people doing this all the time with their SO. They do it because they are insecure about their relationship. I see it the same way for parenting. If you feel the need to do this to your child, you are simply insecure about your ability to parent them to be able to make their own correct decisions.

Don't try to take that personally; it's just an observation. If my parents did that to me when I was a teenager, we *still* would not have a relationship and I'm 30.

 

[Fish]

I feel you can pick you SO. Your parents are your parents, and are looking out for you, if you want to admit it or not.

Yes there is respect and boundaries, so if I feel I am being respected, she earns it back. If I feel something is off, its my responsibility to find out if something is wrong. If that means checking her stuff, so be it.

 

[CMNTMXR57]

I was going to say, respect, it's a 2-way street.

 

[Flyn]

I respected my kids but, if their behavior changed for the worse, I found out why.

 

[CMNTMXR57]

And to add, this goes back to our parenting thread we had a couple weeks ago.

My Wife and I are still the parents. We make the rules as you're living in our house, eating our food, and the clothes on your back are what I pay for.

I'll listen to your POV, but ultimately it's my (or my Wife's) decision.

 

[2QuikTA]

If my parents did that to me when I was a teenager, we *still* would not have a relationship and I'm 30.

Talk about a shitty reason to not have a relationship with your parents. Seems you have parent issues outside of this example, and this example just enforces them.

Oh no, my parents care and are trying to keep me safe.....boo hoo hoo. I’ll take parents who care anyday over parents who don’t give a fuck.

 

[Sprayin]

Talk about a shitty reason to not have a relationship with your parents. Seems you have parent issues outside of this example, and this example just enforces them.

Oh no, my parents care and are trying to keep me safe.....boo hoo hoo. I’ll take parents who care anyday over parents who don’t give a fuck.

Oh please. I don't have any parent issues because my parents weren't psycho and try to micromanage my life.

 

[Flyn]

The most repressed girls are the ones that go crazy wild. (Dating tip...) :3some:

 

[CMNTMXR57]

Can we get back on track here... This kid is a hero among the male species.

 

[Mook]

20 years

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...3-year-old-boy-sentenced-20-years-prison.html

• Brittany Zamora, 28, from Goodyear, Arizona, was sentenced to 20 years in prison on Friday
• When she is released, she will have to register as a sex offered and serve two life terms of probation
• She pleaded guilty last year to having sex with a 13-year-old male student she taught at Las Brisas Academy

 

[blakbearddelite]

Dang, that's a long sentence for a woman. I feel like they usually get off lighter than men.

 

[Spivitz]

Im guessing a male judge would had been more lenient

 

[VenomousDSG]

This is a tragedy....

 

[Lord Tin Foilhat]

Well he was 13.... That's a little fucking young

 

[Flyn]

Out in less than 10? She says she wants to get a new degree in prison to get a job when she gets out.

Why can't these women pick 18 y.o.s

 

[cacicgtp7]

I just read those text messages. I don’t understand when they make the kid out to be an angel but he’s the one texting crazy shit too. I mean she should obviously know better, but that kid knew exactly what he was doing lol