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imported_Ron Vogel
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Ok, so I had the kids today as my wife had to go to her sister's baby shower. I had them help me do an oil change on my wife's car then I was going to take them fishing. I called my Dad to see if he wanted to come with us so he could spend some time with his grandkids. He comes by, and he was looking pretty tired. I thought I better drive into the park since it didn't look like he was up for a walk.
We get to the first spot, and had to walk about 100 yards to it. He was spent from that, and we ended up only staying there a few minutes. Then instead of walking to the next spot, we got back in the car and drove to the boat launch so we didn't have to be too far from the car. He sits down on the launch, and when he gets up, falls right back down onto the rocks and gravel doing a number on his arm. I had to help him get up, and he couldn't steady himself enough to even get back to the car. It looked real bad, I mean like hospital time. He shrugged it off, and I took him back to his car at my place and he drove himself home.
So I called my sister to see if she can talk some sense into him...and get his ass to a doctor. She was on the phone with him for over 2 hours to find, he hasn't been to the doctor in awhile, and hasn't taken his blood pressure medication in a long time. I thought something was up, about a month ago he fell down on a walk by himself and wasn't able to get up for 45 minutes. I mean WTF, why he won't get checked out is beyond me.
I just had to go through my Mom having her 2nd heart attack 2 weeks ago, and she's not taking care of herself either.
I really don't know where to begin with talking to either of them, I already have my own family to take care of. It seems pretty inconsiderate on both their parts that the kids barely get to see them as it is, let alone if both of the croak from being stupid.
Sorry for the rant; been brewing for awhile.
We get to the first spot, and had to walk about 100 yards to it. He was spent from that, and we ended up only staying there a few minutes. Then instead of walking to the next spot, we got back in the car and drove to the boat launch so we didn't have to be too far from the car. He sits down on the launch, and when he gets up, falls right back down onto the rocks and gravel doing a number on his arm. I had to help him get up, and he couldn't steady himself enough to even get back to the car. It looked real bad, I mean like hospital time. He shrugged it off, and I took him back to his car at my place and he drove himself home.
So I called my sister to see if she can talk some sense into him...and get his ass to a doctor. She was on the phone with him for over 2 hours to find, he hasn't been to the doctor in awhile, and hasn't taken his blood pressure medication in a long time. I thought something was up, about a month ago he fell down on a walk by himself and wasn't able to get up for 45 minutes. I mean WTF, why he won't get checked out is beyond me.
I just had to go through my Mom having her 2nd heart attack 2 weeks ago, and she's not taking care of herself either.
I really don't know where to begin with talking to either of them, I already have my own family to take care of. It seems pretty inconsiderate on both their parts that the kids barely get to see them as it is, let alone if both of the croak from being stupid.
Sorry for the rant; been brewing for awhile.