Stuff your wife/gf does that drives you nuts
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Dude my wife is always hot at home and likes the house cold AF like we are ice fishing or some shit. In the car the heat is on so high it’s hotter than a sauna and I can’t breathe
Holy fuck dude, fuck it I’ll be the first to say it. Why are you still married? Your life sounds miserable.
My only complaint is her cleaning everything and I mean everything with some sort of Clorox. Besides that, she works full time, cooks, cleans, blows me when I ask and some times without asking, and I get ass on a regular. Love waking up on a weekend morning with my meat stick in her hand as she wants to fuck first thing.
Ex girlfriend got pissed when I sent flowers from there instead of going and picking them out myself… SMH
I feel much better after having attended the AWS (Annoying Wife Syndrome) seminar with you guys. Like Shawn says, Amy's good traits vastly outweigh the issue of needing to look for something she stashed. Plus I have gotten to know her over the years so I know my cast iron pans will be on the drink cart rather than in the pan cupboard.
what the fuck is with that. Oh, you didn't pick them yourself so they don't have any meeting. Ok, cool. New solution:
what the fuck is with that. Oh, you didn't pick them yourself so they don't have any meeting. Ok, cool. New solution:
Yeah, became ex shortly after, not going to deal with that shit the rest of my life.
I’m not married and I get treated like a king and we rarely fight very similar to Shawn. She does want the ring the get married I’ll go as far as get the ring I don’t want nothing to change. I’ll probably propose on Valentine’s Day this year which is around the corner.
Mine is great except for:
- Struggles with de-cluttering. My fix for this is I throw stuff away when she's not around. I also have done with with a past business partner who could not make a decision about getting rid of stuff. I will just do it haha.
- We have a cleaning lady, twice a month. Wife uses our big kitchen island as a place of clutter, catalogues she will never read, Amazon boxes... It's a fugging mess right now. Then complains the night before when she has to clean it up for the cleaning lady haha.
- Typical chick, every side pocket in her car is full of trash. Never washes her car.
- Wants to lose weight, but her way. Which basically never happens unless we are attending some big social function like a wedding. Gains it all back. She made a big cake the other day, first one in years. No idea why.
- Most of the drawers in the house have a ton of crap in there. Again, never sorts through it and throws stuff away. Acts very put out when I do it and she realizes it after the fact.
I’ll offer to go through clutter together once… give it a few days then stuff gets tossed. At least if I put her stuff in a pile it’ll get overwhelming for her and she takes care of it. Also we had my parents over for pizza tonight, and I came down from sleeping all day to a spotless kitchen. Weird.
Reading everything here makes me REALLYYYYYY appreciate my wife so much more. I can't complain. My wife used to work and ended up closing her company and being a stay at home wife/mom. When I worked construction and come home, food was on the table waiting for me nice and warm, dishes were cleaned, laundry was done, house would be as clean as possible (hard to keep clean with 2 kids). Once I was done eating, I'd jump on my game for a bit and she never had an issue. She knows playing my game is my stress relief. Always had my clothes ready for work or sleep. Very supportive. Always backed my ideas when I ran it by her.
We hardly ever argue. When we do, they last less than a day (usually a few hours) and we're back to normal. Arguments weren't bad neither. We'd just spend time in separate rooms cooling off then apologize to each other and talk it out.
I stayed at home all year (got into day trading) so that we can focus on our autistic daughter and get her under control (extremely little sleep, tantrums, hitting, ect). My wife was about to go crazy. We worked together and got our daughter under control. Now that I've been home, she (my wife) still does the same thing. She still cooks, cleans, does laundry, ect. I of course help her, but not once has she really slacked off. Hell, even when she had surgery and needed to rest for a couple weeks, she still got up within a couple days and still did what she does best.
We've been together for almost 15 years (this year) and married just about 9 years (this year).
So again.... I'm truly lucky to have my wife as my wife, and I do appreciate her.
We hardly ever argue. When we do, they last less than a day (usually a few hours) and we're back to normal. Arguments weren't bad neither. We'd just spend time in separate rooms cooling off then apologize to each other and talk it out.
I stayed at home all year (got into day trading) so that we can focus on our autistic daughter and get her under control (extremely little sleep, tantrums, hitting, ect). My wife was about to go crazy. We worked together and got our daughter under control. Now that I've been home, she (my wife) still does the same thing. She still cooks, cleans, does laundry, ect. I of course help her, but not once has she really slacked off. Hell, even when she had surgery and needed to rest for a couple weeks, she still got up within a couple days and still did what she does best.
We've been together for almost 15 years (this year) and married just about 9 years (this year).
So again.... I'm truly lucky to have my wife as my wife, and I do appreciate her.
Stuff your wife/gf does that drives you nuts pisses you off
FTFY
In my case:
…everything. Doubt she’ll be around here much longer.
Mine is basically perfect except for one thing.
She can't close a door to save her life. She pulls them basically to a crack, then wont pull it all the way shut. And I mean this for interior doors like bedroom, bathroom, laundry room doors and so on. Not like the front door or cabinet doors.
I came to find out from asking her mom this way back in the day that in her childhood home they had a "No closed doors" rule. And her and her two siblings were basically wired to not ever fully close a door. She grew up with a single mom as a parent and they had some funky rules.
20 years later and I STILL cant get her to shut a fucking door. Closet doors always open, the laundry door always open and so on. We have actually fought about this. Now I just close them when I see them. Like I said shes basically flawless.
41 years old, had three kids(all mine lol), perfect body not a mark on her and shes a german redhead with the kindest and most wonderful heart and sense of humor. Plus she loves me.
She can't close a door to save her life. She pulls them basically to a crack, then wont pull it all the way shut. And I mean this for interior doors like bedroom, bathroom, laundry room doors and so on. Not like the front door or cabinet doors.
I came to find out from asking her mom this way back in the day that in her childhood home they had a "No closed doors" rule. And her and her two siblings were basically wired to not ever fully close a door. She grew up with a single mom as a parent and they had some funky rules.
20 years later and I STILL cant get her to shut a fucking door. Closet doors always open, the laundry door always open and so on. We have actually fought about this. Now I just close them when I see them. Like I said shes basically flawless.
41 years old, had three kids(all mine lol), perfect body not a mark on her and shes a german redhead with the kindest and most wonderful heart and sense of humor. Plus she loves me.
Answers my question/statement with a question...
Me: What do you want to do for dinner?
Her: What do you want for dinner?
Me: Your phone is ringing.
Her: My phone?
Me: What do you want to do for dinner?
Her: What do you want for dinner?
Me: Your phone is ringing.
Her: My phone?
If I was a divorce attorney I’d be all over this thread.
I've gotten much more laid back with the stuff that used to irritate me, and realize it's not the "end of the world" and not worth me getting all stressed about it. I can certainly relate to plenty of stuff on these posts, though. I'm not perfect, she's not perfect, but together we're a good combination.
I got lucky bro. Believe me, I’ve put her thru hell and back multiple times. There is soooo much shit I’ve done that I won’t say on a public forum. She has literally been a ride or die bitch with everything except my cheating. Said it before, we have had our fair share of timeouts, and always because of me.
I’ve also said it multiple times on this forum. DO NOT GET MARRIED, my Wife and I both agree. If we could go back in time, we wouldn’t have gotten married.
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