For those without kids, do you regret not having any?
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Not one bit. I can barely keep my own life together. I cant be responsible for another life.
I'll quote the bae.
"I don't want to in fear of fucking them up like my parents did me"
I'm too selfish for kids. I'm glad we haven't.
There are talks of possibly adopting later on in life, which when we are somewhat more settled may seem like a better option.
Kinda like breeding dogs. Why do that when there are so many others out there that need your help.
"I don't want to in fear of fucking them up like my parents did me"
I'm too selfish for kids. I'm glad we haven't.
There are talks of possibly adopting later on in life, which when we are somewhat more settled may seem like a better option.
Kinda like breeding dogs. Why do that when there are so many others out there that need your help.
Not even 30 yet so unsure if my opinion matters, but majority of my friends are starting to settle down and start families.
My fiancee' and I are in agreements we don't want kids. DINK for life.
My fiancee' and I are in agreements we don't want kids. DINK for life.
my wife and I really want kinds but between me being 46 with some health issues and my wife having thyroid issues Its been a challenge. we are currently in the process of adopting but has been very costly and has been a process.
Wanted kids back in my early 30's and didn't work out with my ex wife. Thank god.
No regrets once i got past 35-36.
No regrets once i got past 35-36.
I think the sentiment here will vary greatly with age. I don't really think a guy starts to even contemplate this until they're in at least their mid 30's, and even then it's not a huge deal because a dude can always date someone younger. Regret doesn't seem like it would set in until mid 40's or older (if at all, obv it will vary by person)
What's the pronoun for liking broads but them not liking me?
I'm waiting for the evangelicals to take over the government so I can buy a couple of dames, for a couple of goats and cows.
I'm waiting for the evangelicals to take over the government so I can buy a couple of dames, for a couple of goats and cows.
If I inherit a step kid, that's totally cool. But I think, for me, I'm past wanting to start a family in my 40s.
I'm in the same boat, I can't find a woman to save my life. Maybe Russian mail order brides will be on clearance soon
I'd probably marry and have kids with a gorilla right now if she knew what advancing a retarding cams timing does
44 here. No kids, no regrets. I love my life the way it is.
I'll be 37 this year with no ragrets. DINK life. Our dogs are our children. My sister and SIL just had their first child, we will be the cool childless aunt/uncle that will spoil their kids instead.
My wife is only 34, she is focusing on her career, and our goal is early retirement. These last fucked up years have made me reflect deeply on this. We still have time to change our minds, but its unlikely.
My wife is only 34, she is focusing on her career, and our goal is early retirement. These last fucked up years have made me reflect deeply on this. We still have time to change our minds, but its unlikely.
Yep, GF has 2. They are cool, but I am in no way responsible for them. And she does an excellent job of not putting any "kid" pressure on me. It's why we work so well. I'm just the fun guy!
Plus I can just escape to my house if they start getting to me......lol
Didn't want kids, but am glad I have them.
Different strokes for different folks.
I don't regret having them, I regret whom I choose to breed with to create them.
Different strokes for different folks.
I don't regret having them, I regret whom I choose to breed with to create them.
Even people that have kids have told me that if you are in anyway doubtful about having them then you shouldn’t do it, it’s a labor of love and sacrifice not to mention how much it costs to raise a child nowadays.
I’m sure the rewards from having kids come later in life once you see them grow up and become adults and parents themselves.
Personally I am at a point in my life where it doesn’t make any sense to have children, that part of my life has come and gone, will I have regrets? Perhaps but I will also have great memories of things I was able to accomplish because I didn’t have children.
I’m sure the rewards from having kids come later in life once you see them grow up and become adults and parents themselves.
Personally I am at a point in my life where it doesn’t make any sense to have children, that part of my life has come and gone, will I have regrets? Perhaps but I will also have great memories of things I was able to accomplish because I didn’t have children.
Was originally in the DINK club, we were wavering to go either way. Then we had one, and figured that'd be good, but... Now we have two and they're the best damn things in the world.
Nothing wrong with not having kids either, all up to the individuals and what you decide together.
Nothing wrong with not having kids either, all up to the individuals and what you decide together.
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