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By the way, WOT=Wide Open Throttle.
There is a config in the factory tune that does, in fact, count miles and/or key cycles and it limits your boost to a percentage of the total possible. It does not limit it to "x" p.s.i of boost. This was designed so that boneheads in transit and lot boys wouldn't beat the snot out of them.
There is no vacuum leak because it's not a mechanical boost gauge. The gauge is electronic and it works by calculating various factors and coming up with "inferred" boost.
For the OP, tell your buddy to kick it in the ass....but not now, he'll end up in the ditch on those tires in the cold.
BJ