Originally posted by sweetness@Jul 30 2004, 02:18 AM
im with the hit it crowd, just odnt get attached. I dont know your history, but if this is going to be the first time around i would advise staying away. Very few people get laid the first time and dont fall for that person. its a lot more complicated tahn a first timer realizes. Now, if you have the experience, and really dont want to have a relationship then go for it. You really dont want to get involved with a girl who is going to be off at school, especially if you arent.
As for her, "Im going off to school soon, so i dont want to get involved..." bs. She is saying that for one of two reasons. She really isnt interested, or she just wants to knock boots w/out commitment and is letting you know that. I say the next time she pulls that shit just be like, "I know how you feel about you going to school, so lets just have fun and not put so much pressure on this whole thing. We both know you are leaving soon, so we just wont get too involved.", or something to that effect. If she gets pissed or offended then you didnt want to be involved with her anyway. If she stays with the same line that she is going to school then she wasnt interested,a nd just liked the attention. If she is game... well then she is game. good luck.
keep the feelings out of it.
BC